I never talked directly to her. We were not even in the same country, and our ages were different too. Only one thing we had in common: BPD. And she was always there in the facebook group, putting inspirational quotes and commenting the stories. She commented twice in my posts, trying to help me with the problems I had at the time. I think it is unique the way a person can stay in the minds of those she didn't even meet. She helped me, and I, miles away, have her in my mind.